Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Since my last in...

Six flags trip was bearable, I had no problem traveling with my ex and the baby R. We stayed at a very nice hotel that he paid for with his Visa credits and it had two tv's so the guys stayed up and mommy slept. I willed myself to walk all day at Six Flags and sit down rarely. I think I did fairly well, I was exhausted but no complaining, who would I have complained to? My ex did complain about his bad back and aching feet, no sympathy from me that's for sure.

On the insurance front had 2 more meetings with my car dealership deal and we managed to keep the waivers to a minimum. My boss is awesome, she has such a great sense with people. $20,000 in premium a month and a slight boost for me.
The final waivers will be faxed in today by end of business.

On another level the gentlemen S who occupies an office next to mine has recenetly gone independent previously he's been captive with large companies but with escalating car and home rates he's had trouble keeping policies in force. So he is in the process of moving his book of business over to us. I assume he's getting the same deal I am from what I can glean from the bad acoutics of this office. He believes in the low hanging fruit of our office and he's even got me almost motivated to start cold calling them. But only time will tell cause we all know I'm a little hard to convince that our current business isn't dead. My feeling has been with the few limited calls I've made that the book is full of tired, almost out of the business folks. So let me sell you another policy but at the same time if I take the group and individual approach I might be able to do better. Also now I don't need to be hand held thru the whole process. I can do a health or dental deal a lot faster. Confidence is a big deal for me, and I still don't know enough about the taxes angle of the whole deal to speak about that.

My birthday is tomorrow and in the am early, I'm going to do my diabetes test. I'm experiencing some of the sympotoms of gestational diabetes. I'm postive that this will be my last pregnancy, unless I can afford to have some lady in India to do it for me. I'm worried. I hate needles and I know I'd be completely unable to do it without some help.

On the more personal note my ex was served with child support papers yesterday, I assume. I did warn him during our Six Flags trip, which he resents highly. I did leave him an email Thursday of last week after he called me and let me know that Sheriff's had been to his employer to serve him. He also stated that he didn't know how he was gonna tell me that he might get drug back to Arizona for something he didn't do. He sent me a long email explaining why he listed as a father of a kid that isn't his.
He's sent me several erratic emails telling me that he's going to be homeless because of me and that he's going to take Rowen away from me. I truly wonder if I was drugged when I fell in love with him. He has managed to completely separate his love for his son and his love for himself and money. Whatever!

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