The car dealership deal I am in the process of finishing has a division in Idaho and we received a good quote for them but after my problems with the local division I didn't want to present it until I had received a medical looky.
Lots of smokers, and a couple of other medical problems, we'll see if I can keep that great rate. My gut is saying maybe if I raise the deduct.
I still have not being feeling well and since speaking with my boss yesterday I'm having 50th thoughts about entering into an agreement that might tie me to this place every day.
The rub is that I am sick from morning sickness almost every day. I become so ill that it's almost impossible for me to be here before 10am and since I'm fairly quick about the things I do do I can almost guantree I'll be done in two hours.
I think what I will propose to her is that if she is going to have me here for hours on end I need more responsiblity. I need to learn the P&C side, hand me a few things teach me something. I'm much better when I have something in my hand to do.
As for my tattered lovelife, I assume what little civility there is between my boyfriend and I will be gone the moment he receives word that I'm seeking child support. His portion of R's birth alone is close to $5000 or more and then monthly maintance is staggering. But a part of me doesn't feel sorry for him in the least. I mean he's had yearssssssss to pull himself together and do something with his life and if he wasn't going to do it for himself what about his kids?
If I won the lottery tomorrow, I'd be able to afford him and my family and somehow I'd make it all work. But I don't play the lottery.
He needs to pull himself together and asking for child support is the best way to make that happen. I don't want back child support at this time, I just want some help no more than the 18% required. I seriously doubt I'll get any of the hospitial money back from him. It's not about that. It's about diapers and doctor's visits. I wish I could make him see that.
No word yet on his medical condition, either that or he's not telling me. If he became ill I know I'd take him in. It would cause a world of pain to my family but there is no way that I would allow the father of my kids to be homeless. I know that he would do it for me. I mean the love has to go somewhere doesn't it?
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
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