Wednesday, August 13, 2008

We agreed to disagree....

My ex and I had mediation the other day and it went well just as I expected. He was belittling and I just kept my calm and rose above it. He wants every other week custody and I want to maintain our current every other weekend. We agreed on some basics and fought over the primary physical custody. Hello courtroom drama.

I took him the children this afternoon and I was prepared to leave him with the new baby but he freaked out. He never touched R until he was a year old, never made him a bottle or changed a diaper--at all ever. So he wanted to die. So I stayed and got a great little tidbit of news.

He also found at that the money that is currently being taken out of his check is actually going to the state of Arizona. I tracked down several phone numbers for him but basically he's screwed. I will print him some info, but what it really means is that I won't be getting any money any time soon. I'll have to tell my sister at some point but this is gonna kill her. I'm so sick of this. I'm so disappointed that my kids are gonna suffer. I just don't want to think about all this.

Things are just never gonna work out.

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